Oct 12, 2011

Why is life so hard for some and not others?


It's A Test of Your Emotions
The reason why life is so hard for some and not others is because life is a test of your emotions.

Why is life a test of your emotions?

Because you think everywhere you turn somebody, somewhere is trying to give you some kind of grief.
When this happens you have no idea how to rise above the emotions with your head held high and to carry on...
Finding happiness inside and loving yourself will be difficult!

It could be your mother, your father, your husband or wife.
Your children, teenager son or daughter or grownup adult child.

It could be your boss, your co-worker, your best friends or friends.

It doesn't matter who it is...It's just a test.

A test of your emotions...

Some people take this test well and others have a very difficult time handling the test (emotion) of letting it go.
It's the reason you carry a heavy weight in life, because you are actually carrying around every body's emotions...  including yours.

It's not pretty if you have to do this day in and day out.
 It's just not pretty...

Here are some interesting scenarios that will have people reacting in different ways.

  • Some people can walk into a room and hear sneers and giggles from others, it's not even about them and they live the rest of the day in pain. Pain from something that was not theirs.
  • Some people will walk into that room and turn around and say, "Hi", then... listen to the sneers and know that it can't possibly matter or not.
  • Some people can't walk into that room, they see people there and they quickly turn back.
  • Others will walk into the room and completely ignore anyone, almost like they don't exist. They do what they need to do and then leave.
There are many other scenarios. but I'm sure you get the picture...

Why is life so hard for some and not others?

  • It's mostly history of what life itself has done to you. If you've been beaten down all your life...You just expect to get beaten down every time you encounter life.
  • How strong your intuition is.(Some of you may have a strong emotion intuition.) Having this is wonderful, but not being able to differentiate what emotion is yours and what are others, can have you feeling very heavy!
  • Some people think that life is safer not getting too close and this can make you afraid. Afraid to come to0 close to others. Afraid to bond and make friends. 
  • Others have no concept of what the good life is.
 Before I leave you I want you to understand that life is hard, only if you make it hard. You have a choice to keep emotions or let them go. You have a choice to keep emotions, hold them in, acknowledge that this was an emotion that made you sad and then angry.

And YES say this out loud, and acknowledge that you were in fact angry.

Now it's time to let it go...

Let it go...Watch it go like a helium balloon to heaven...Watch the emotion go.

You’re free if you practice this all the time.
Why is life so hard for some and not others?
Truly because others just let it go..................